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FAMILIES
ARE IMPORTANT
Family
plays an important role in the life of the individual believer.
Beginning with Adam, all human beings have come into this world
with certain needs that can be satisfied only in intimate relationships
with other people. The first man, fresh from the creative fingers
of God, with a Creator to worship, a beautiful world to behold and
countless creatures to enjoy, nevertheless sought for special human
companionship. For him, as for those ever after, God instituted
the family as the primary provision for the intimate relationships
for which the human heart yearns.
The family
then, is divinely-ordained. It was instituted at creation with the
union of Adam and Eve. It is as old as Eden and is lodged firmly
in the history of God's people through the ages. Scripture abounds
with teaching concerning the family.
In this circle
of the family, one's deep and abiding needs for belonging, for love,
for intimacy and for social contact are to be met. It is here that
the establishment of identity and the development of personal worth
take place. Here the earliest work in the socialization of the individual
occurs; values are implanted in the young and are transmitted from
one generation to the next. By God's grace the family may be a powerful
agency for the discipling of its members for Christ.
Substantial
revelation concerning the divine purpose for the family has been
given. Practical principles for family living regarding the relationships
of husbands, wives and children are found in such passages as Ephesians
5:21-6:4. God's relationship with His people is often presented
as the model of human relationships (1 John 3:16; Eph. 4:32; 5:25).
In addition to God's plan that the family operate so as to meet
the special needs of persons, God intends that we and the world
should gain a revelation of Him and His ways from relationships
in our families (Ps. 103:13; Is. 54:5).
Family
is considered so special, so significant that domestic imagery is
used to convey theological truths and to give comfort and encouragement
(Is. 49:15; Jer. 31:32; Eph. 2:19; Rev. 21:2). As described in Malachi
4:5, 6, family is in focus during last day events. In this passage
the Bible predicts that before the great day of the Lord, in the
spirit and power of Elijah, God will give a final heart-turning
call designed to turn this generation toward Him and family members
toward each other.
Home and family
was a favorite subject and frequently addressed by Ellen G. White.
These quotations are indicative of her view of the strategic importance
of the Christian home:
"The
restoration and uplifting of humanity begins in the home. The work
of parents underlies every other. Society is composed of families,
and is what the heads of families make it. Out of the heart are
the 'issues of life' (Proverbs 4:23); and the heart of the community,
of the church, and of the nation is the household. The well-being
of society, the success of the church, the prosperity of the nation,
depend upon home influences." The Ministry of Healing,
p. 349.
"Far
more powerful than any sermon that can be preached is the influence
of a true home upon human hearts and lives." The Ministry
of Healing, p. 352.
"The
greatest evidence of the power of Christianity that can be presented
to the world is a well-ordered, well-disciplined family. This will
recommend the truth as nothing else can, for it is a living witness
of its practical power upon the heart." Testimonies for the
Church, vol. 4, p. 304.
"Our work for Christ is to begin with the family, in the home.
. . . By many this home field has been shamefully neglected and
it is time that divine resources and remedies were presented, that
this state of evil may be corrected." Testimonies for the
Church, vol. 6, pp. 429, 430.
"If we will open our hearts and homes to the divine principles
of life, we shall become channels for currents of life-giving power.
From our homes will flow streams of healing, bringing life, and
beauty, and fruitfulness where now are barrenness and dearth."
The Ministry of Healing, p. 355.
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